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Gbill7's avatar

“How can we hope to invite Jesus into our hearts while living lives which harden our hearts? I do not see how we can.”

I find that this is a guideline that helps me choose a path - does my action feel kind, or does it harden my heart? Do what feels kind! That feeling of a “hardened heart” prevents connection to God.

But I have done many kindnesses for certain people, only to be treated indifferently, or even cruelly, in return. After that, I no longer feel like doing kindnesses for that person - my heart “hardens”. I then have to forgive them, until I don’t feel cold-hearted towards them. For one’s mental health, you can’t be a complete doormat for someone who gives cruelty to you in response to your kindness. But you have to get rid of that “hardening” of the heart to align with God’s love.

“He who says he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked” - 1 John 2:6

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The Watchman's avatar

Peter, you might want to correct your verse. It's 3 John not 3 James. Good verse, however. Might use it myself today. @https://nothingnewunderthesun2016.com/

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